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Teen Pregnancy-Post 1
Teen pregnancy is on the rise….
I am pretty sure everyone is aware that teen pregnancy is on the rise. Everywhere you look there are babies having babies. I can speak personally on the topic because I was a teen mother. I got pregnant with my oldest son my senior year in high school.
One of the biggest disagreements I have when it comes to views of why most teen girls get pregnant is that they were somehow influenced by the media…I do agree that the media; including videos, television and the music industry play a major role in how teenage girls and boys view sex and their personal identities, but I disagree when it comes down to media influence and the actual act of having unprotected sex resulting in pregnancy.
For the most part I believe that teen pregnancy is the result of carelessness and being irresponsible. Unprotected sex is not the main result of media influence, unprotected sex is the main result of being irresponsible due to lack of knowledge or lack of putting the knowledge into play.
When teenagers are acting irresponsibly and having unprotected sex I can guarantee that images like the one below is not what is going through their head at that very moment.
In the heat of the moment they aren’t concerned with how hot Britney Spears looked with her big belly or how fierce Halle Berry looked soon after she gave birth. No, they are concerned with having sex, nothing more, nothing less.
True their paths before making the dangerous and immature decision of having unprotected sex may have beenfilled with consumption of half naked young ladies gyrating in music videos, or watching television shows and reading countless magazines that publish articles on hot pregnant celebrities, but that alone is not why teens are having unprotected sex and having babies.
Many of these teens who are having unprotected sex are not facing reality when it comes to what the act of not using protection can cause. Sure they know about sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies, but they still don’t always use protection for numerous reasons.
- One reason being that they really don’t take protection that seriously. They know that it is important but for them using protection each and every time they have sex is not a mandatory or necessary step.
- Another reason is that many of them are putting ill fated trust in their partners and in their self. They are under the pretense that their partner is clean and that they both know how to not get pregnant even when not using protection. That may sound ridiculous, but it is reality. Many teens are using the “pull out” method also known as the highest baby making method to date. They are under the false assumption that a young man can pull out of the vagina before he ejaculates. This method is being used by countless numbers of teens, most of whom have or will soon come face to face with teen pregnancy.
- Others are not using protection because they really don’t feel comfortable buying condoms or talking to their parents or other adults about birth control because that means they are admitting that they are having sex. Instead of facing facts and getting the information and guidance that they need they sneak around and have unprotected sex putting their self at risk for STDs and unwanted pregnancies, along with tons of emotional stress.
The statistics show that teen mothers are 40% more likely to
*drop out of school
*end up single mothers
I wholly agree. I was a teen mother who had to drop out of college after the first semester, forfeiting a full scholarship. I also fell into the category of single parent by the age of 24.
An article published with stats from the CDC on teen pregnancy rates states that Mississippi has the highest teen pregnancy rate in the nation, followed by Texas and New Mexico. All three states have high numbers of teen births with the majority of the pregnancies being African American or Hispanics. The article also states that; “Some conservative organizations have argued that contraceptive-focused sex education is still common, and that the new teen birth numbers reflect it is failing.”
I agree. The sex education classes offered in schools are a complete mockery. Most teens are unfortunately learning about sex from their peers and from personal experience. They are not being informed in their schooling the hard hitting facts about sex, sexually transmitted diseases and teen pregnancy. They don’t take the classes seriously and the information provided in the classes is just the basic, these are your reproductive organs and information on body image. This information is informative, but not practical for teens that know what sex is, want to have it and know that they like it.
I was surprised to read that in some states two types of sex ed are classes being offered in schools depending on what the state or local school district mandates. Both seem much more effective than the general Lifetime Wellness classes that many of us took and never thought twice about.
Even with these classes and some schools offering condoms, the rate of teen pregnancies is still on the rise, even more so for the Southern region of the United States. Personally I don’t know what can be done, when the information is readily available, there are countless forms of birth control and the evidence of the effects of unprotected sex is in plain view for those who are taking the risk. Yet, teens everywhere are still neglecting to use protection.
This video really touched me. It reminds me so much of when I was a young mother and faced the reality that my baby depended upon me for everything that he needed. I knew that I had made a mistake that could not be changed, but the love I had for that little boy filled my heart enough that I could get over my mistake and try to be more for him and for myself.
Teen Pregnancy Post 2 to include the topics of (peer pressure, baby fascination parental involvement and generational teen pregnancy)
Hot Topic: Michelle Obama
Why is Michelle Obama such a hot topic? The quick and easy answer:
Michelle Obama=HOT STUFF
(and I don’t mean that in a celebrity, Paris Hilton, omg she’s hawt way)
Michelle Obama is sophisticated hot, she is luminously hot and she is our 1st African American first lady. That in itself is immeasurably hot!
Her charisma, intelligence and style grab your attention; her cause and determination keep your attention at a standstill.
In the history of the United States, I don’t think there has ever been so much talk about the First Lady of the United States. Who ever cared so much about the President’s wife; what she wore, what she said or how she interacted with her husband?
Nevertheless there is constant chatter about the wardrobe of our soon to be First Lady, Michelle Obama. Much so that there is an entire website dedicated to what Mrs. O wears. This site chronicles what Michelle Obama wears and has some great sketch designs of Mrs. O.
Again I ask, who ever cared so much about the First Lady of the country? Each and every outfit she chooses to wear is under scrutiny by the media. Each magazine cover she graces is examined, re-examined and then discussed. Each interview she does is closely monitored.
Michelle Obama has graced the covers of quite a few magazines, and if you have ever heard her talk you know that she is the real deal. She is a strong, smart, African American woman…did I forget to mention smart.
Just in case I did forget to mention smart, check out Michelle’s credentials:
besides being a mother, wife and public servant, Michelle holds the following degrees
- Graduated Cum Laude from Princeton University with a Bachelor of Arts (1985)
- Earned her Law Degree from Harvard University (1988)
…..For more about Michelle Obama visit:
Barack Obama.com (About Michelle)
No other first lady has been so charismatic, so eye catching and different from the status quo. Michelle Obama is definitely a hot topic and she is well worth the chatter. Barack Obama will serve us well and Michelle will have his back 100%. Michelle and Barack are my shining star example of Black Love. And BGT ♥ Black Love
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